An old and cliche saying many people
have heard is respect your elders. These words do have a great deal
of merit. The elderly have a great deal of wisdom to share with us.
They may be stubborn and set in their ways, but there is still much
to learn from them. Some time has passed before many individuals get
the true meaning of respecting their elders.
As admirable as these sentiments are,
our elders are only human. We can learn much from their wisdom and
their mistakes. A lifetime of bad habits caught up with many of the
senior citizens. Smoking, drinking, poor diet, lack of exercise, and
really anything one can name, had caught up with many of them. Said
vices lead the elders to medication as they approach the later stages
of their life. Then we considered the number of diseases which impair
those much older.
So the children and grandchildren have
to find time to care for elders. This effort would require much team
work. Of course, if there are very few hands on deck, the effort to
care for older people are much less. Caring for an elder is not
unlike a part time job. It requires a great deal of sacrifice.
Eventually, even if we care about our older family members, they
eventually find their way to a elderly care facility.
The problem is senior citizen care is
really one of the most under looked areas in the country. Sadly,
society has this tendency to sweep the seniors under the rug. The
rest homes and the supposed professional care is not the best. In
many extreme cases, there are allegations of abuse. Many of the homes
exist just to milk every dime out of honest individuals who want the
best care.
If one wished to put their elderly
parents or grandparents in a home, do be prepared to do plenty of
research. Not all homes are nightmare dens of greed and abuse. Most
of them sadly do have elements of both. It is just a lot easier to
sweep problems under the ground. The government does it all of the
time but it has trickled on down to modern society.
The sentiment given where we need to
expect our elders rang soundly in our ears. As often as these words
are said, they often miss the point. The biggest problem of society
is most do not respect their elders. Of course, many of those not
respecting their elders will be senior citizens themselves one day.
Until humanity ends, the cycle will continue.
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